My brother’s wedding was beautiful, heartfelt, and completely alcohol-free—but no one knew until after dinner, when guests discovered every drink at the bar was non-alcoholic. The debate that followed wasn’t really about alcohol at all. It was about whether hosts should tell guests about unusual plans before they arrive, especially when there are no other options nearby.
My younger brother, Caleb, always said he wanted a wedding that reflected who he and his fiancée really were. “Simple,” he’d tell anyone who asked. “No stress. No drama.” When …
My brother’s wedding was beautiful, heartfelt, and completely alcohol-free—but no one knew until after dinner, when guests discovered every drink at the bar was non-alcoholic. The debate that followed wasn’t really about alcohol at all. It was about whether hosts should tell guests about unusual plans before they arrive, especially when there are no other options nearby. Read More