
My boyfriend thought it would be a fun Christmas gift. “Letâs find out our ancestry!” he said. “Maybe youâre part Viking or something.”
I laughed and spat in the little tube. I didn’t think much of it. I grew up in a happy home. My parents, Mike and Linda, were the high school sweethearts who made it. I looked just like my momâblonde hair, same noseâbut everyone always said I had my dadâs “stubborn chin” and his laugh.
Six weeks later, the email hit my inbox.
I opened it while sitting at my desk at work. I scrolled past the “50% Irish, 40% German” breakdown until I hit the “DNA Relatives” section.
Father: No Match. Predicted Relationship: Half-Brother (Unknown Name).
I froze. I refreshed the page. Maybe it was a glitch? I searched for my dadâs surname. Nothing.
My stomach dropped. I called my mom immediately.
“Mom, did you ever… you know, seeing anyone else when you got pregnant with me?”
Silence. Long, heavy silence.
“Sarah, come home,” she whispered. “We need to talk.”
I drove over, my hands shaking on the wheel. When I walked in, my dadâmy dad, the man who taught me to ride a bike, who scared away my first boyfriend, who cried when I graduated collegeâwas sitting at the kitchen table. He looked older. Tired.
“I took a DNA test,” I said, dropping my bag. “Youâre not my father.”
My mom started crying, but my dad just looked at me with the softest, saddest eyes Iâd ever seen.
“I am your father, Sarah,” he said firmly. “Iâm just not your biology.”
“Who is?” I demanded, feeling betrayed. “And why did you lie to me for 24 years?”
“His name was David,” my mom choked out. “We were dating in college. He… he wasn’t a good guy. When I told him I was pregnant, he gave me cash for an abortion and left town. I was 19. I was terrified.”
She looked at my dad. “Then… Mike stepped in.”
My dad stood up and walked over to me. “I was your mom’s best friend. I loved her since tenth grade. When she told me she was pregnant and scared, I told her, ‘Iâve got you. And Iâve got this baby.’ We got married two months later. I signed the birth certificate. I cut the cord.”
He reached out and took my hand. His calloused palm felt exactly the same as it always had.
“I didn’t want you to grow up thinking you were unwanted by some guy who didn’t deserve you,” he said, his voice cracking. “I wanted you to know you were wholly, 100% wanted by me. I made a promise to myself the day you were born that biology would never matter. You were mine.”
I looked at this man. I thought about the time he worked double shifts to pay for my braces. The time he drove three hours in a snowstorm because I had a flat tire. The way he looked at me with pure pride every single day of my life.
The anger drained out of me, replaced by an overwhelming wave of love.
“David might be the guy who provided the DNA,” my dad said, tears finally falling down his cheeks. “But am I your dad?”
I threw my arms around his neck and squeezed him harder than I ever had.
“Yeah,” I sobbed into his shoulder. “You’re my dad. You’re the only dad that matters.”
We never looked for David. We didn’t need to. The man who raised me had already given me everything I needed.